make sure your partner actually cheated

I am writing this to my ladies who are in a relationship and have a gut feeling that something isn’t right, but they just can’t put their fingers on it, trust me dear a woman’s intuition is never wrong. So if you feel as if he is up to no good, chances are he isn’t.dont worry these signs will help you confirm everything. You don’t need evidence to confirms his action neither would he confess when you ask him.after confirming you either move on or move out.

1.He deletes the text history on his phone. Most people do not bother deleting old text messages. If your partner makes sure that old messages are deleted or he deletes them as soon as he finishes a conversation with someone, there may be more going on than just texting.

2.His attitude has changed. Your laid back partner seems to have been involved with unusual enthusiasm, seems more happy, alive, energetic and is more kind and loving towards you. He may shower you with gifts and surprises out of guilt.

3.He’s overly defensive.Defensiveness exists for many reasons. In the past, were you able to discuss issues openly and calmly? What you are looking for here is an increase in the normal amount of defensiveness event when it is irrelevant.


If your husband has suddenly found someone who feels like an escape from the monotony of your marriage, don’t be surprised if he starts noticing every little flaw in you. Strange as it may seem, those ridiculous fights over how you do your hair or how much weightgain/loss could be a sign that he’s seeing someone else.

5.HE STOPS KISSING YOU DURING SEX. Sex is a fundamental intimate experience, but when someone’s cheating, it becomes significantly less so. If your spouse is no longer looking at you during sex, bails or won’t even kiss you during the act, it could be a sign his mind is wandering elsewhere.

6. Notice what he says. Several things that your man can say may indicate that he is cheating on you.If he used to complement you all the time, but never complements you anymore, it may be because he is thinking of someone else or he could also sounds different, using words you’ve never heard before, laughing in a new way, or just phrasing his words differently, he may have picked this up from another lady.

By Ian Dei

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