SINCE my wife went off sex, she has suggested her sister and I get together, as her brother-in-law is too ill to want it.

We have been married for 26 years and our marriage has turned into “flatmates with very few benefits”. I am 50 and my wife is 49. We used to have a good sex life but she is now on medication that has completely killed any sexual appetite she had.

Her sister is also in a sexless marriage. Her husband has a debilitating long-term illness that put an end to their sex life.

They are a very open family and my sister-in-law has talked a lot to my wife and me about her sexual frustration. She agrees with my wife’s suggestion.

So far, nothing has happened – I feel the emotional complications could be catastrophic.

But they keep saying: “If we are careful, nobody need ever find out.”..Continue Reading