I am a nurse with three children. My husband and I are traditionally married. He doesn’t want to sign the marriage certificate at court. And he behaves like he was forced to marry me because we had our firstborn premarital.
He is a good father but a poor husband. He doesn’t communicate with me, he comes home late and disrespects me.I have been doing my best to please him despite everything.
So, along the line, which is around early late year, opportunity came for nurses to be able to travel with their whole family to work and stay abroad.I told him about this but he discouraged me.
Well, I applied anyway and God being so good I was selected to have that travelling card. I told him about it and his reaction surprises me. i am deeply hurt. Quickly, he wants us to go and sign the marriage certificate and go on with it.
This hypocrisy digusts me and I have a strong feeling he will abandon me and my children when I take him along. And now he has been spreading it to his family that I am declining taking him along. I want to go with my children without him. I can’t trust him. I believe he will abandon me there.
What should I do, because he is making me be the bad person in the picture now. All that he did to me was kept in the closet but he is quick to tarnish my image. Tables are turned and he feels he is losing. I don’t believe him!
Please What Should I do?